by vaulander » Mon Sep 28, 2009 8:35 pm
As someone who loves to teach, I can say I have worked with all manner of students, in various areas. Guitar and bass playing, TKD, Judo, what little I know of Shaolin, woodcarving, Warcraft III computer playing, what have you. Both my father and I worked with my sister and her math skills.
How you handle the students depends 95% on the student. Some look at the good students and say "I'm gonna get that good!" and having them in the same group will inspire them to great things, no matter how long they have to work on it.
Others go "I'll never get this..." and the skill of the others will just bring them down. Work those people alone, or with their peers. Perhaps a separate class or private teaching.
Tommy, a guy I met at Sifu Boris' Shaolin school, was all elbows, long and spindly body, and so clumsy he could mess up a sneeze. He was hungry though, very hungry. The rest of us could throw him around like a rag doll, but he never quit, he only tried harder. Once he got something, he'd be 10 feet tall for a month, and never passed up a chance to show it. Sporadic too, he could do a beautiful forward somersault, but look like a sack of potatoes doing a forward roll.
Taught him to play a song on the guitar, took 3 months for a 4 minute instrumental. (I don't sing, sounds like a sick crow in a powerdive. People would pay me to stop.) All he had at home was a kiddie guitar with a string missing, but he played his fingers raw at my place trying to get it down. One of our happiest moments when he played the song straight the first time.
My sister was the other way with math. There were times she cried after math class because she just couldn't get it, and the harder she tried, the worse it got. Coming to class where everyone else just breezed through everything (to her mind,) while she was sitting there feeling stupid was just torture. If it wasn't for dad and I spending hours with her alone she would have flunked. As it was, she barely scraped through, and she was damn glad when school was over.
Here's to cheating, stealing, fighting, and drinking.
If you cheat, may you cheat death.
If you steal, may you steal a woman's heart.
If you fight, may you fight for a brother.
And if you drink, may you drink with me.