some highlights from our saan da matches eg. here:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ZvW790KJ9I[/youtube]
(saan da starts at at 3:20)
well, that is more than half a year ago - our guys are doing much better today. just this friday we had 2 hours of friendly fulll contact sparring with a xingyi practitioner and a baguazhang/shuai jiao/boxing practitioner, both with a dozen of years of experience under their belt.
way to do? well, learn free fighting systematically and methodically from a qualified teacher, with the "more is not better, more is just more" approach. be ready for hard work. fighting looks cool on a video or a movie, reality is far less romantic.