Self Defense for Women

[laukarfei]

no..i wish i lived on the west coast though!! so much more culture out there i live in ct and its really just boring. and in the end id just instigate them and when they went to move at me they would see why a rapist/martial artist = hopeless lol jk jk

[Daifong]

Right, so the more intimidated somebody is, the more directly they should escalate to lethal force?

j/k, j/k, hahaha!

The main thing, is in giving those women a little time with a personal security/ self-defense expert such as Itinerant_Phenomenologist, that they may establish a set of relevant, effective guidelines for comfortable day-to-day living through assertiveness, proper planning, and conflict management. Even a gun is useless in the hands of a person "conflicted"...

Also, many people (men included) walk around in public putting out careless, fearful, angry, contemptuous, or otherwise disorganized/ disrespectful energy in all directions. Behaving in a preoccupied manner while in public can be a "go" sign for some predatory types, yet to additionally project an insulting demeanor can have a volatile effect on some unbalanced individuals already experiencing challenge in the area of self-esteem...

So, to help an innocent, reasonable, and well-meaning individual prevent from being "uptight", when exhibiting a cool, calm exterior is more properly called for, or conversely, "too relaxed" (or possibly overreacting) when there is actually some potential for concern, can be the favor of a lifetime, ok...

Still, somebody who has always viewed themselves as smaller built, less atheletic, kind-hearted and civil definitely needs to examine the various types of scenarios that they may find themselves in during the course of a typical day (or night), analyze the various factors with an eye toward sources of potential danger and protective recourse...

Then, in a non-threatening, supportive environment, sorting out what they are realistically willing and able to do in those situations, with whatever they can muster, with a mind toward developing and internalizing a personal/ family security policy that is tailored to them individually...

Finally, some will certainly experience anxiety when even thinking about a dangerous situation. so reminding that anxiety is always worse when one doesn't have a "trouble area" clearly defined, it becomes clear that once one has one's personal balance with all of the necessary contingency plans in place, one is adopting a realistic approach that will allow one to relax and enjoy one's life, without being unduly "paranoid", or haunted by unnecessary concern that any relaxation possible could be at a direct cost to one's very own personal safety!



Best,

Michael

[Daifong]

I_Ph'ist,

I don't believe that there's anything quite the matter with young master laukarfei here that th good Lord gracing him with a daughter or two of his own wouldn't fix...

That is, if his mom doesn't catch him posting like that in the meantime!

[laukarfei]

[Daifong]

[laukarfei]

[Daifong]