I stand corrected. You may want to bring foot guards as well, for kicking my ass repeatedly without injury, unless you practice iron foot technique. I got some Dit Da Jow for bruises, should you need it.
I understand the Tan Tien concept, and I understood when you said 'sit in the stance'. I have done several slow move-by-move repeats of Kung Gee with all the tips and advice you have all offered, and I do notice a vast difference. Also, as the previously mentioned clips show, I have done far more footwork/stances and striking drills. There is a certain feeling when doing things your way, that I didn't have before. At first I felt awkward pulling my shoulders back, that is, not leaning forward into the techniques, but now, I don't know... don't want to get all dramatic or so, but I guess I can compare it to a cone standing on the bottom instead of the tip.
Thank you all again for advising me and spending time taking my ramblings seriously.
V.